I’ve become fascinated over the last few years with things that capture the feeling of being young. I’ve put this down largely to the fact that I’m no longer part of the first wave of youth – I recently was in a nightclub and felt comfortably the oldest person in there, a feeling that took a bit of getting used to.Music is the easiest way to make people feel young again, by virtue of the fact that people reminisce about the songs that they listened to when they were young. Much harder is to make songs that capture the sound of youth, in all its messed up glory and these are generally the more precious songs. I used to consider that Pet Sounds by the Beach Boys was the most perfect surmise of what it was like to grow up, with its complex and subtle themes of love – be it gained or lost but I can’t help thinking that the record is missing a fundamental ingredient.
One band that I’ve been listening to a lot recently for this reason is Nashville punk band Be Your Own Pet, who sadly crashed and burned at the end of last year. Their songs are raucous, immature, brash, loud and ultimately perfect little anthems that could only have been created by the very young. This was true of the band who released their first album aged 15, and were practically veterans by the time their second (and final) record came out three years later. When they decided to split, they still had a number of gigs in the UK that they were forced to honour and, having witnessed their penultimate performance ever in Liverpool, was slightly amazed at the drug-addled mess that they had descended into.
There is an overwhelming sense of cockiness in the grain of the music, with the loud guitars almost acting as a metaphor for the aggressive pain of adolescence. My favourite lyric on the second album is “I know what I did was pretty rotten / Now its like everything you did is forgotten / So go ahead and tell your sob story / All I have to say about it is blow me”. It covers the broad themes of youth that Pet Sounds does, but it does so in the language of the young, the residue anger of your first love gone wrong. It is the kind of language that is meant to sound stupid to older people, that is meant to create that sense of anarchy.
In a similar scenario, I recently read Richard Milward’s book Apples which tells the story of two teenagers named Adam and Eve in Middlesbrough. Milward was a student when he completed the novel, which beautifully captures the spirit of the new generation of youngsters that have access to adulthood years before previous generations. There is no doubting that this is largely unpleasant with tales of drink, drugs, rape and teenage pregnancy proliferating on the page, all nicely summed up as an allegory to the biblical story of Adam and Eve.
What Be Your Own Pet and Milward have in common is the balance of equal parts dark and light. For all of the aggressive, loud functions of both works, there is a similar amount of beauty and romance that lingers on over the long term.
It highlights that no matter how many adults tell you that you know nothing when you’re young, you arguably have a much greater power. Once that innocence, naivety and aggression is over, you can’t re-create it which is why it is imperative that Be Your Own Pet or Milward created this before they were too old. More importantly, the art of youth is perhaps more flawed than anything, but it is these extreme flaws that tend to make it so engaging.
People say that youth is wasted on the young; perhaps that’s the whole point of growing up.


